What do you think is a greater predictor of success in life–a high IQ score or the ability to delay gratification?
In the late 1960’s, a researcher named Walter Mischel conducted a simple experiment: A child is seated at a table in a small, empty room and the researcher places a marshmallow or a cookie on the desk in front of him and says, “You can eat it now, or, if you can wait, I’ll go and get you another one.” Mischel and his team conducted this experiment on hundreds of kids and have followed them throughout their adult lives. Continue Reading…
In 1957, after a “grace awakening,” jazz musician John Coltrane played a 32-minute rendition of a “Love Supreme” as a prayer to God, then stepped off the stage, put his saxophone down, and said simply, “Nunc dimittis.” It’s Latin for “now dismiss” and comes from the Song of Simeon (Luke 2:29-32) where Simeon says he is ready to die because he had seen the promised Messiah. “Lord, now let your servant depart in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation.”
I’ve read a lot of famous last words but I think nunc dimitis is the best ever.
It’s a prayer of completion. “I’ve poured out everything to God and seen all there is to see this side of heaven. Now, let me depart into my reward.”
How can we live to utter such a phrase?
Keep the end in mind.
Live with an eternal worldview.
Remember that people matter, things don’t.
“To make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from. -T. S. Eliot”
Live with the posture of the shema (“to hear and obey”) in relationship to God. “What is God saying and how am I responding?” “Do I hear and will I obey?”
And be fully present where you are.
A young student once asked a rabbi, “What must I do to change the world?” The rabbi instructed the young man to walk over to a small graveyard and criticize everyone buried. He then instructed him to praise them. Finally, the rabbi said, “When you can be as dead to the praises and insults of people, you will begin to change the world.”
Wesley Furlong is the founder and director of City of Refuge (refuge.life), a network for community transformation and the director of Church Development for the EVANA Network, an evangelical Anabaptist network of churches across North America.